Signs of unilateral relations
You are so carried away that you did not immediately notice, but whether your partner was with you all this time. Perhaps it will be difficult to pay attention to such things, but it's all for your own good.
It is necessary to know how your partner treats you, provided that you do not lose your mind towards someone who is simply not in love with you. It is difficult to understand, it is even more difficult to accept and leave.
You are responsible for making plans
Even though you are both part of theserelations, the construction and implementation of plans is something similar to the work done. This is an endless test of the timetable, in order to somehow come up and enter a date there. Moreover, your partner is not interested in choosing a place or other type of activity. You are free to do anything. He just does not take part in anything.
You are always with him, but you can not rely on him
You always give him time, because heis a priority for you. If you need it, you will never cease to appear in his life. You are ready for everything for the sake of your partner. But in a situation where you need it, it is nowhere to be found. And all because he takes you for granted.
You do not want to open in front of him.
Emotional intimacy comes from feelingvulnerability in communicating with each other. Telling each other secrets and making you feel protected or even more loved for such honesty. If you feel that you share intimate details that are leverage against you, then your partner can not be trusted. You do not have to be with someone who does not feel safe. And also with someone you can not share with someone important.
He would rather do something different than spend time with you
It is quite obvious that you can not be together alltime. There is life outside relationships, which must keep pace with the relationship. You need to spend time with each other. In fact, you must do this. However, if your partner makes you feel that the time spent with you is his responsibility. Think, perhaps you should release him from such obligations. You do not want to bother him?
You have to apologize for every little thing
He absolutely loves you when you arein its best shape. But when it's not easy for you and you drop your hands, he can push you out the door. You are forbidden to feel somewhat absurd, tired, or simply offended in his presence. If you accidentally feel otherwise, you better apologize for this. You must act only as you would like it to. You do not have to put up with it, and no one should. All in life there are bad days, and there is nothing wrong with suppressing them for a while. If your partner really cares, he will try to make you feel better, but by no means the other way around.
With frequent conversations, you are trying to ask something from him
Not that you eat his brain for the wholeday. You just work, study, but you can not even talk to them at least a little. This can be a short text or a quick call, but you still want to talk to them. On the other hand, it seems to him that it is very difficult to answer your texts or calls, not to mention contacting you yourself. This is not exactly what he wants to do, but what needs to be done.
You can not help him find faults in a relationship
We all tend to think about our relationship. In truth, this is not what we decided to do, but, one way or another, we do. And this is a pretty good way to find out at which stage of the relationship you are in. But when all that you do is that something goes wrong and requires your intervention, there is only that which you can correct. If your partner is not ready for this, no action will work. His behavior leads to uncertainty and doubt. You do not need to be in a relationship that always annoys you.
You will think a thousand times before asking him to go anywhere with you
You can not ask your friends to go with you toa concert or a romantic film that you would like to see. This includes any other boring or even unpretentious activities that you would like to do within your own interests. He must be the most reliable person. When everyone else says no, you go to him. But if you can not even go to him, then who?
You always justify the behavior of your partner with family and friends
Your friends and relatives always doubtrespect your chosen one to you. For this reason, you always use excuses. They are afraid that if your partner does not respect you and does not pay attention to the people around him, then this is the worst half of your whole whole. If he loves and cares about you, his behavior should reflect this in actions, which in no way requires your excuses.
You try to involve him in your life, until he makes such an effort
Despite how your family or friendsrefer to your partner, you still try to make him a part of your environment. But instead of responding to you in return, he is not even interested in any of your endeavors. He does not want to learn anything new about you than what he already knows. In addition, he is very closed in his personal life. You know little about your family or friends, and he does not make any effort to change it. Between you two there is always a lack of a strong connection.